It's soooo haaard. Poor dude. *pats* But yes, you do have to work toward change if you aren't happy, and no, you can't live according to what you think other people want you to be.

But ... you can't do it by force of well. And like you say, you've made changes before, and you're pretty damn original. I have Faith.

& thanks for the Rat-year's card! V cute. I will try to pry it away from Bow for my Collection.